Okay, if you know me well, you know that I absolutely cannot stand the term, making love. It just grosses me out–I don’t know why but it does. So, if a sexual partner references our activities as making love it always kind of skeezes me out. Ew.
Anyway, so a particular partner was doing his version of romantic (it’s not) and says, “Thank you. I have a beautiful woman who lets me make love to her”. It was uncomfortable and not the right moment for me to cringe or say yuck or whatever–so I go with honesty and say, “Baby, if you’re standing behind me, while I’m on all fours on the bed (a tie for fave position, bee tee dubs) and you are pulling my hair by wrapping it around your fist–making my back arch, we are not making love. We are fucking. Plain and simple”. He was bothered by my attitude. My question, darlings: what would you call it? Is that making love or is that fucking?
ealvfargond 
that’s fucking. and that’s awesome. and that’s fucking awesome.
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